Believe

I believe in everything until it's disproved. So I believe in fairies, the myths, dragons. It all exists, even if it's in your mind. Who's to say that dreams and nightmares aren't as real as the here and now?
~John Lennon

Friday, May 11, 2012

Pretty Things Friday

So my friend Change says it's that time again...
Just this morning she said, "Hey! Let's redecorate your hair and kitchen!"
So off we go...

Hair.


I kid. Too blonde for me, but LOVE it on her...


Kitchen.
Color, color, color!
Oh, how I love you!

Happy Friday!
xoxo

Tuesday, May 8, 2012

Shades of Tampa

Cinco de Mayo had me driving to Tampa for a piñata-tequila-bounce-house super party!

As always, road trips are a time for quiet contemplation and an opportunity to revel in many of life’s little lessons.


Here’s a short list of important life lessons I learned this weekend:
  1. Road trips are better in the front seat.
  2. I no longer have the energy of a 10 year old.
  3. It is difficult to bounce around in a bounce house after 3 glasses of sangria and countless "small plates" of ceviche...
  4. Also impossible to attempt flips of any kind.
  5. Darn children with their sobriety and excess energy will put you to shame every time.
  6. Exiting a bounce house should be done quietly and with your chin up (to avoid vomiting).
  7. Your boyfriend and his friends performing mariachi-style Karaoke at 2AM is a sure sign that the 5 hour drive home the next morning will be painful.
  8. Very painful.
  9. But worth every second!
After all, life is short. Live it up!

Other things I did this weekend—

My best friend recommended I read 50 Shades of Grey. Which I did. The book sat on my lap for most of the road trip (when I was not driving—or reading poetry, of course). And yes, I enjoyed every page.


Important life lessons I learned as a result of reading 50 Shades:
  • Some women will be angry/take personal offense that you are reading/enjoying this book. (e.g., it’s not good writing! It’s offensive! You are validating work that encourages stereotypes!)
Is it literature?
No. Get over it.

But as Lizzie Crocker at Newsweek points out: “There [is]…thankfully, enough ‘kinky f—kery’ to keep readers entertained between long passages of prosaic, recycled dialogue: (I want to make your dreams come true, Anastasia. You are my dreams come true, Christian. You. Make. Me. So. Happy. I. Love. You.)”
Nauseated? Refer to life lesson #6 (above).
  • And some women will be angry/take personal offense that you are not reading/enjoying this book. (e.g., you’re such a prude! You’re such a snob! You have deep-rooted issues! You’re sexually repressed!)
To which I say, whatever.
Read it if you feel like it. Don't, if you don't.


xoxo

Want more?
Of course you do.
Click here for Newsweek's History of Surrender

Monday, May 7, 2012

Man, oh, man!

This is...
Freedom.

This is Alex Honnold, rock climbing rock star.
But he doesn't just climb rocks.

He scales 2,500ft cliffs 
without so much as a rope.



Thursday, April 19, 2012

Some of my soul mates are dead




Very few people walk. I mean really walk. I have a boyfriend who walks. I think of him as a serious walker. But up until I met him, I’d never known anyone else who walks as much as I do.
So now we walk together. And we have a few unspoken guidelines:

1. If our destination is less than 5 miles from home (one way), we walk.
2. If we have no destination, we walk.
3. If it’s a Saturday or a Sunday, we always walk. As long as…
     a. we can arrive within the day.
     b. (though it may take us half the day to get there)…
     c. but then, we won’t be in any hurry to get back. Worth it, indeed!
4. Most of all, we enjoy our walking journeys!

Sometimes the journey is a dinner party. Though never at my place because I don’t cook. Sometimes I think about dead people at dinner parties. What dead people would I invite to a dinner party if I cooked and hosted one?

I’d definitely invite Henry David Thoreau. He was a serious walker and a man after my own heart.
Coincidently, here’s Henry David Thoreau on Walking. (This is seriously fantastic!)


Oh, Henry!

"I think that I cannot preserve my health and spirits, unless I spend four hours a day at least...sauntering through the woods and over the hills and fields, absolutely free from all worldly engagements....When sometimes I am reminded that the mechanics and shopkeepers stay in their shops not only all the forenoon, but all the afternoon too, sitting with crossed legs, so many of them—as if the legs were made to sit upon, and not to stand or walk upon—I think that they deserve some credit for not having all committed suicide long ago.

I, who cannot stay in my chamber for a single day without acquiring some rust, and when sometimes I have stolen forth for a walk at the eleventh hour, or four o'clock in the afternoon, too late to redeem the day, when the shades of night were already beginning to be mingled with the daylight, have felt as if I had committed some sin to be atoned for,—I confess that I am astonished at the power of endurance, to say nothing of the moral insensibility, of my neighbors who confine themselves to shops and offices the whole day for weeks and months, aye, and years almost together....

...[T]he walking of which I speak has nothing in it akin to taking exercise, as it is called, as the sick take medicine at stated hours—as the Swinging of dumb-bells or chairs; but is itself the enterprise and adventure of the day. If you would get exercise, go in search of the springs of life. Think of a man's swinging dumbbells for his health, when those springs are bubbling up in far-off pastures unsought by him!

Moreover, you must walk like a camel, which is said to be the only beast which ruminates when walking. When a traveler asked Wordsworth's servant to show him her master's study, she answered, "Here is his library, but his study is out of doors."...

When we walk, we naturally go to the fields and woods: what would become of us, if we walked only in a garden or a mall? ...Of course it is of no use to direct our steps to the woods, if they do not carry us thither. I am alarmed when it happens that I have walked a mile into the woods bodily, without getting there in spirit. In my afternoon walk I would fain forget all my morning occupations and my obligations to Society. But it sometimes happens that I cannot easily shake off the village. The thought of some work will run in my head and I am not where my body is—I am out of my senses. In my walks I would fain return to my senses. What business have I in the woods, if I am thinking of something out of the woods?...

Some do not walk at all; others walk in the highways; a few walk across lots. Roads are made for horses and men of business. I do not travel in them much, comparatively, because I am not in a hurry to get to any tavern or grocery or livery-stable or depot to which they lead....

However, there are a few old roads that may be trodden with profit, as if they led somewhere now that they are nearly discontinued. There is the Old Marlborough Road, which does not go to Marlborough now, me-thinks, unless that is Marlborough where it carries me. I am the bolder to speak of it here, because I presume that there are one or two such roads in every town....

At present, in this vicinity, the best part of the land is not private property; the landscape is not owned, and the walker enjoys comparative freedom. But possibly the day will come when it will be partitioned off into so-called pleasure-grounds, in which a few will take a narrow and exclusive pleasure only—when fences shall be multiplied, and man-traps and other engines invented to confine men to the PUBLIC road, and walking over the surface of God's earth shall be construed to mean trespassing on some gentleman's grounds. To enjoy a thing exclusively is commonly to exclude yourself from the true enjoyment of it. Let us improve our opportunities, then, before the evil days come...."

Read the full essay over at This Green Blog.

Wednesday, April 18, 2012

Who I love today

John Surowiecki

I really hope you can read this...
If you can't, visit PoetryFoundation.org
You'll be happy you did!

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Summer to do's

sleep under the stars


go deep


a pie, everywhere.

Monday, March 19, 2012

The Reaping

She is harvesting her edge again, a feeble shudder, arms slanting sideways through her balloon sleeves. I’ve forgotten to invent her, to mark up her magazines, to stare back into the vastness of her black pupils.  Now there’s too much missing, too many parts I can’t remember. We have time.  In the midst of her rustling legs that swirl across this room’s gravely tarnished carpeting, I tell myself this. Time to blaze through the fields spitting sugarcane kisses like we dreamed.  To be there—always there, just beyond our torn fences.  Never here. With her breath escaping, I picture her legs as they were, running.  Ill-prepared for these happenstance meetings, too melodious and honey-eyed, too spread like apricot jam to be held. Still.

Monday, February 13, 2012

Fever



Oh, monday.
"Your eyes like a casino
We ain't born typical."

xoxo

Friday, February 10, 2012

A Day In California

time passes so quickly.



created by Ryan & Sheri Killackey
w/music by the Cinematic Orchestra

Enjoy!

Happy Friday!
xoxo

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Super



If you watched the super bowl, you saw this David Beckham for H&M ad and thought, "Wow, nice marketing!" I know.  I did, too.